CW: Mentions of Transphobia and Fatphobia
Category: Gender
Transphobia In Sex Blogging – One Year On
CW: Transphobia It was February last year when I first wrote about transphobia in the sex blogging community. I wasn’t the first person to talk about it, but at the […]
Trans Joy – Nail Polish
I don’t paint my nails that often at the moment. Like many people I’m struggling with motivation to get dressed up. It’s been all too easy to let things slide […]
Trans Joy – Elliot Page`
Today a world famous actor came our as trans, and I cried. I didn’t cry because of the beautiful joy and vulnerability he showed when he announced this, though I […]
5 Things I Love About Puppy Play
CW: Puppy Play There was a really good discussion over on Fetchat the other week about pet play. One of the questions that came up was “what do you get […]
Cost Of Doing Business
CW: Transphobia I feel like writing is always a somewhat scary process. The words I publish expose the contents of my mind with the world, in a way that feels […]
Clothes as Armour
CW: Transphobia When I present as femme (or variations of androgynous) I feel exposed. Every time I walk down the street I accept a certainty of stares, and a risk […]
12 Things I Wish I’d Been Told As A Baby Trans
CW: Transphobia This is a post that’s been brewing for a while. It’s hard thinking about this, remembering the scared baby trans I used to be. Thinking about all I […]
Queer Rituals
CW: Transphobia As a queer person I often feel excluded from mainstream (cis-het) social scripts*. A big part of this exclusion is tied into the rituals which help construct these […]
50 Filthy Haikus
CW: BDSM, Sex For Smutathon 2020 I challenged myself to write 50 haikus in 12 hours, because hey it seemed like a nice round number … Turns out that 50 […]