Today a world famous actor came our as trans, and I cried. I didn’t cry because of the beautiful joy and vulnerability he showed when he announced this, though I […]
Category: Gender
5 Things I Love About Puppy Play
CW: Puppy Play There was a really good discussion over on Fetchat the other week about pet play. One of the questions that came up was “what do you get […]
Cost Of Doing Business
CW: Transphobia I feel like writing is always a somewhat scary process. The words I publish expose the contents of my mind with the world, in a way that feels […]
Clothes as Armour
CW: Transphobia When I present as femme (or variations of androgynous) I feel exposed. Every time I walk down the street I accept a certainty of stares, and a risk […]
12 Things I Wish I’d Been Told As A Baby Trans
CW: Transphobia This is a post that’s been brewing for a while. It’s hard thinking about this, remembering the scared baby trans I used to be. Thinking about all I […]
Queer Rituals
CW: Transphobia As a queer person I often feel excluded from mainstream (cis-het) social scripts*. A big part of this exclusion is tied into the rituals which help construct these […]
50 Filthy Haikus
CW: BDSM, Sex For Smutathon 2020 I challenged myself to write 50 haikus in 12 hours, because hey it seemed like a nice round number … Turns out that 50 […]
Sex Isn’t Binary Either
CW: Transphobia When you engage in trans issues you have to deal with transphobes. Actually if you’re trans you don’t even need to engage in trans issues, they’ll seek you […]
Trans Joy – Casual Representation
Trans Joy is a blog series celebrating the positive side of trans experiences, in an attempt to bring some balance to contemporary trans discourses. This week I’m talking about casual trans […]
Trans Joy – Masks
CW: Coronavirus, Misgendering Trans Joy is a blog series celebrating the positive side of trans experiences, in an attempt to bring some balance to contemporary trans discourses. This week I’m talking […]