Delighted to share this Trans Joy post by Kelvin, talking about how tattoos help him love his trans body. You can find more of his work here, or follow him […]
Category: Gender
Trans Joy – Eyeliner
Today I’m delighted to share this Trans Joy post by Toni, talking about how eyeliner helped express their non-binariness. You can follow them @_kinker.bell_ on Instagram or @Toni_Andres on Twitter.
Trans Joy – Purple
It’s something of a stereotype that queer people impulsively dye their hair. Between lockdown and my general love of queer coding I’m honestly surprised this didn’t happen sooner.
Trans Joy – Belly
CW: Mentions of Transphobia and Fatphobia

Transphobia In Sex Blogging – One Year On
CW: Transphobia It was February last year when I first wrote about transphobia in the sex blogging community. I wasn’t the first person to talk about it, but at the […]
Trans Joy – Nail Polish
I don’t paint my nails that often at the moment. Like many people I’m struggling with motivation to get dressed up. It’s been all too easy to let things slide […]

Trans Joy – Elliot Page`
Today a world famous actor came our as trans, and I cried. I didn’t cry because of the beautiful joy and vulnerability he showed when he announced this, though I […]
5 Things I Love About Puppy Play
CW: Puppy Play There was a really good discussion over on Fetchat the other week about pet play. One of the questions that came up was “what do you get […]

Cost Of Doing Business
CW: Transphobia I feel like writing is always a somewhat scary process. The words I publish expose the contents of my mind with the world, in a way that feels […]
Clothes as Armour
CW: Transphobia When I present as femme (or variations of androgynous) I feel exposed. Every time I walk down the street I accept a certainty of stares, and a risk […]